This post is for Julie but others might find it helpful too if you are looking to cut dairy from your diet. A quick reference guide to kicking some of these things out of the daily recipes. It is possible to just find substitutes for where you would normally insert your favorite dairy product and if anything just forces you to get more creative. Basic rule of thumb that I follow for each meal is: protein, whole grain & veggie/fruit.
1. Cheese
You might as well just call cheese the mothership. Ever since I can remember I have loved cheese. The tastes, the textures, the way it melts in your mouth or softens a dish with a rich, creamy blanket of goodness. The only acceptable cheese substitute is by Vegan Gourmet. Warning: it only semi-melts, but if you grate it really finely it does melt better. Acceptable for homemade pizzas or the occasional nacho dish. Not recommended cold. This cheese does however contain soy - which is hard for a lot of vegans, since a lot of the imitation products contain soy.
Other options: try nutritional yeast on popcorn or pasta in place of parmesan which can be found in the baking section. It is also great on salads! It is a complete protein and packed with B vitamins too. Keep it in the fridge or freezer.

2. Ice Cream
I have also loved ice cream for a very long time; the way it drips from a cone on a hot summer day, the small scoop in a Double Rainbow cup enjoyed while catching up with friends or the frozen yogurt with 100 different flavor combinations. The only acceptable dairy-free ice cream is Purely Decadent which is made from coconut milk. Same (almost) great texture. Get vanilla and cover it with fruit or blend with frozen fruit to almost replicate a milkshake. Great in different flavors and is the closest that I have tried to the actual texture of ice cream.

3. Butter
Two words on butter: Paula. Dean. I didn’t actually grow up on ‘actual’ butter I have always enjoyed products like Earth Balance and Smart Balance Light (some types are vegan, some are not, just check the label and look for whey, lactose, casein & casinate, which are dairy derivatives) You can get Smart Balance at any store, sometimes you have to go to Whole Foods to find Earth Balance.
4. Milk
I have never really liked milk. If I did it was skim, and at highest 1%. I really like almond and rice milk, both of which come in chocolate for those occasional ‘I NEED CHOCOLATE RIGHT NOW’ kind of moments. Almond milk is a bit thicker for those who enjoy whole milk and rice is almost translucent so depending on what your preference is it is really easy to have a milk substitute that you enjoy.
Some meal combos that are stables in my diet: each meal I shoot for protein, whole grains & vegetables or fruit. I love my food processor & George Foreman & make cooking so much easier & healthier.
Breakfast:
Snacks
Lunch & Dinner

Desserts
In a pinch
Hungry on the go? If I am somewhere like a gas station & starving I grab one of the following:
Kale Soup Recipe
1 tablespoon extra-virgin olive oil
In a large saucepan, heat olive oil over medium heat. Add onion and cook 3 minutes. Add garlic and cook 2 minutes longer. Add broth, kale and tomatoes (and fresh carrots, if using) and cover. Cook 5 minutes or until kale is tender. Add beans and canned carrots and heat thoroughly. Serve hot. Even better the next day warmed up since the kale softens up a ton more :)
* I think this is actually a bit more than my recipe since I cut a tablespoon of oil but this is what the original recipe lists:
Per serving (about 20oz/567g-wt.): 284 calories (80 from fat), 8g total fat, 1g saturated fat, 0mg cholesterol, 460mg sodium , 33g total carbohydrate (8g dietary fiber, 7g sugar), 9g protein